I’ve been at this travel game for a very long time - and starting with my first flight in the Spring of 1966, until now - I’ve been to one hundred and eleven countries (not just stopovers in airports, but stamps in passport), traveled at least seven million miles on commercial airlines, and stayed in so many hotels that I can’t count them anymore. And after all of this, I’m still excited by the adventure of travel and the people I meet on these adventures.
I remember early on I met someone who was much older and well traveled, and he said that the one important thing to do when you travel is to assume you are an ambassador for your country. That means you should never do anything that would reflect poorly on you or your country, and try to make as many people smile as you can. A simple guiding statement that has served me well over these past fifty years of travel. (The older gentleman was Langhorne Bond, former director of the FAA during the Carter administration.)
If I had to give someone travel advice it would be this: Carry lollipops! Most of you know that I never travel without my See’s Lollipops and I use these little sweets to try and brighten the day of hard working people who more often than not lack any positive reinforcement for the job they perform. I’ve given them to folks when checking in for a flight, thanking them for their efforts. We always have a little bag of these wrapped with ribbon and that we present to the senior flight attendant for distribution to all the other FAs. Sometimes, as with our last flight, you never hear anything from them; other times each of the FAs will come and personally thank us. Once on a flight to Singapore we were treated to Champagne (we were in coach) and cake and at the end of the flight presented with a card that every one of the FAs had signed. Those experiences make the effort to carry these all worthwhile.
On Christmas Eve we were in a small Seven/Eleven type of store in the train station here in Brussels where there were lines of people getting last minute things like bread and water and wine. There was one clerk who had been working all day and was rather glum. After she checked us out I presented her with a lollipop and best wishes for Christmas, and for all the world to see it would have appeared that I gave her a bar of gold. She lit up with the biggest smile and kept thanking us and holding the candy to her heart. It was truly one of the best Christmas gifts I’ve ever received. She has not forgotten and every time we go to that store (pretty much daily while in Brussels) she is her usual glum self until she sees it is us checking out. We love it.
I’ve always been a good tipper, but eight years ago after checking into a hotel Cindy said, “You just gave the bell cap five dollars for bringing two suitcases to the room, how much are you going to leave the housekeeper?” Well that sure surprised me since I rarely tipped housekeeping: out of sight, out of mind! Starting with that trip we always leave money and a lollipop or Tootsie Roll on the pillow each morning with a thank-you note. Most of the time they leave a note of thanks, sometimes heartfelt. When we were in Tampa helping Megan during all her procedures, we stayed in a Hilton Garden Inn for about thirty days. We left money and candy and notes, but we also got to know the entire housekeeping staff and if they didn’t leave a note of thanks they found us in the hall or reception area and thanked us personally, always asking how Megan was doing and letting us know that she was being prayed over by the housekeeping staff. When we finally left they all came to reception to say goodbye and wish us well on our journey; it was like having seven mothers!
They say that money can’t buy you happiness, but it can buy you sweets that you can give to hardworking folks, or children, and it just brings a bit of happiness to everyone on the receiving end (especially the dentists of the world).
Best wishes, Cindy and Wm