Monday, September 16, 2013

Summer's End


Today marks a bittersweet event.  I have not been on a commercial flight for sixty-five days!  That hasn’t happened since 1980, so I really must be retired.  I must say that a part of me really misses the travel. I tend to forget all the hassles and misery that I know was a big part of my traveling days, but I remember with great fondness some of the really swell flights and my mind tricks me into thinking that all of my flights were like the few good ones.  I’ll extend my record until the 29th of September when we’ll finally begin our autumn travels in earnest.  Note from Cindy:  I can verify his faulty memory on travel issues!  To Wm’s credit, he only remembers good things and when we travel he is suddenly surprised by all the hassles.  Luckily I am good at listening, comforting, and rolling my eyes, so we get through it pretty well.

Most of the summer has been spent right here in beautiful Charles Town.  Overall it hasn’t been a really bad summer. We had only a few weeks of truly miserable weather but that’s over now, and today is a day that is so beautiful it makes me sad that I’m watching football instead of being outside playing football!

We have spent the summer tilling the land.  Cindy has done the bulk of the gardening and the grounds of the estate reflex the superwoman effort she has applied to the task.  There are flowers everywhere and because of the beauty and variety we have been visited by lots of hummingbirds, bees, butterflies and small colorful songbirds.  We have an abundance of tomatoes, all different varieties and colors, as well as some decent peppers, one eggplant, tons of herbs - and after the first frost we’ll gather our crop of sweet potatoes.  I’ve maintained the lawns and trimmed the trees, which are now already in the early stages of turning color.
From Cindy:  He undersells himself – the lawn looks great and he has spent countless hours helping me with the posies.

We have tried to have one day a week that we call Anything Can Happen Day, just like the Mickey Mouse Club. While it isn’t always on a Wednesday, we do try to keep the spirit of surprise and make last minute decisions to do something out of the ordinary. This has given us a chance to see a bit more of our immediate surroundings, which has proved to be not only fun, but also educational.  We have had some summer guests whom we have taken to places we haven’t been so that has been an additional inducement to “get out of Dodge” for a day’s trip.  Our most recent adventure was simply lunch in nearby Shepherdstown where there is a relatively new French bistro that is very good.  This was our second visit so we believe that they’re always good and our first visit wasn’t a fluke; if any of you visit we can take you there with confidence.

Last week we took a two-day mini-vacation to Fredericksburg, VA just to see what it was all about. Our friend Tom told us it had the best frozen custard joint, which was also on the national register, so we went. It has a very old central core with well-maintained buildings and lots of historical placards, mostly about the Civil War.  Neither of us is a big fan of the Civil War so that part had no appeal, but a river runs through it and you just have to love towns that have a river running though them.  There are tons of B&Bs but I’m not a big fan of them since every one we have ever stayed in is big on letting their cats and dogs rule and I am definitely not an animal lover. Instead we dusted off some points from Marriott and stayed right downtown in a modern, well air-conditioned building with a strict no-pet policy. 

The first order of business for us was to scout the place out and find a good place for dinner.  We enjoyed walking around the little town, which is a funny combination of town and gown; the University of Mary Washington is there.  It looked to us like a typical university town, with a new generation of hippies wandering around with instruments and glazed eyes and professors with earnest expressions, grey ponytails and tablets tucked tidily into their LL Bean daypacks. There were the normal stores that cater to both tourist and student; one of the best was a tattoo parlor called simply, “Sorry Mom Tattoos”.   The place was like a little bitty Portland Oregon. The first night at dinner before we ordered we were told about a substitution, which left us speechless: “Tonight we are out of the Mizuna lettuce and are substituting Glenburnie Farm lettuce.”  Oh dear, what to do?  It hardly mattered to us.  Later we had a good laugh with our waiter, who had a wonderful sense of humor, when I asked about an item on the menu that promised to contain only Amish eggs. I asked when chickens got religion and he said with a straight face, “Oh, the chickens wear little bonnets.”  It was that kind of place and the food was really spectacular.

After dinner we wandered a bit before heading back to the hotel, which was jumping. It was the first game of the NFL season and they were offering lots of snacks and discounted drinks and there were TVs everywhere.  We found a quiet booth and as we ordered a drink Cindy noticed that our server had a Luthier’s tattoo (an elongated “S” shape).  He was very impressed that Cindy knew what it was; I just amazed that Luther had a tattoo!  She patiently explained to me that a luthier makes stringed instruments, and they continued their conversation about his experience in luthier school where he had made 18 violins, 1 viola, and 1 cello - while I contemplated the drinks menu.  It was a fun evening and we were happy we came.

The next morning after our long walk we decided that perhaps it was a one-day town and thought about going somewhere else, but we really couldn’t think of where to go so we decided to stay and see more of the sights.  We thought it would be a good idea to walk over to George Washington’s boyhood home, just on the other side of the river.  On paper, this was a stellar idea:  Combine some nice walking with a bit of history and be back in time for lunch.  The walk turned out to be a bit more like a marathon.  Once we crossed the river we ran out of sidewalks and had to walk on the side of the back road, which wasn’t that bad until we ran out of back road and ended up on a highway with no sidewalks.  The temperature had now hit 90 and the humidity was quite high, but we slogged on taking comfort from some of the signs on the side of the busy road that advertised things like The Greek House of Pizza, The House of Jumbo Shrimp and Grits, and a MacDonald’s that was made to look like an old colonial house.
Some stuff you just can't make up!


We finally got to George Washington’s Boyhood Home only to find out that it was just the grounds of his boyhood home and they wanted $17 big ones for each of us to walk though.  We demurred and decided to go back to our hotel via another bridge a bit further up the road.  Tourist maps do a very horrible job of scale. What appeared on the map to be just a tad up the busy road was really much farther, and then what we thought might be a quaint bridge did not have a sidewalk.  So here are the Embees walking across a very large bridge with six lanes of traffic going 60 miles an hour, which accounted for the only breeze as the temperature now went well into the 90’s.  We were miserable and practically jogged the last half mile to get back to someplace with a sidewalk.

We treated ourselves to a very lovely long lunch followed by an equally lovely and long nap, thus refreshed for our dinner.  We had made reservations at a place that is supposed to be the best in town.  The joint was jumping when we got there, a testament I thought to the quality of the food and the fact that it had just reopened after a short summer interlude to remodel.  We were shown to our table and we were pleased that we had reserved since the restaurant was full.  Our waiter gave us menus and then decided to play Houdini and disappear!  We waited and waited and after about twenty minutes with not so much as a glass of water - not to mention wine - someone appeared to take our order. Since we had had so much time to look at the menu we knew what we wanted and listened with interest as the waiter informed us that the two things we really wanted weren’t available, despite the restaurant just having opened. Additionally the wines we wanted weren’t available so we decided to make ourselves unavailable and we simply walked out.  We usually can make the best out of any situation but it was clear to us that this wasn’t a really good restaurant so we went right back to the place where we ate the night before and had a splendid meal.  

With best wishes,  Cindy and Wm